I have a pair of bhps that i've just paired up for the first time. It all seems to be on track, how ever it the female thats making all the moves (tail slaps, tickeling and all the intrest). Is this normal? every where I read its the male that makes the moves. I haven't had them sexed myself im just going by what I was told when I bought them, but im starting to think that what I thought was the male could infact be the female. Any ideas? dosen't matter either way, just that I feed the female? more prior to the seson.