...after watching every single video that crodoc has put up
his are very 'tame' if you want to put it that way.
Ah, but even the 'tamest' of my monitors will remove a finger or toe without hesitation under the right (or, rather, wrong) circumstances.
But I am also aware that monitor are very smart creatures and know when it feeding time. Not saying that it will not take a bite when it's hungry, but know certain times and things that are related to feeding.
Hmm.... yes, no and maybe. There are certain precautions you can take and most of the time, if you give the monitor all of the right signals, they can discern feeding times from non-feeding times, but to rely on that would be disastrous. I'll give a quick couple of examples (and I've probably told at least one of these stories before):
My adult male lace monitor never gets fed outside the enclosure, so he has no reason to think anything is food outside the enclosure, right? One day I was ironing a shirt and he and the female were both off wandering around my home, as I let them do for a few hours each day in summer. When I finished ironing, I unplugged the cord of the iron from the wall socket and accidentally dropped the plug while wrapping it up to put the iron away. The next thing I heard was the sound of claws on floor tiles as the male lace monitor came flying over to where I was, crossing my entire lounge-room and kitchen in under a couple of seconds. I looked down and saw the familiar quick, darting head movements of a hungry lace monitor that saw something move and is looking for the small animal that made the movement. Unfortunately, those quick, darting head movements were happening less than 30cm from my thong-clad feet and I knew that the slightest movement on my part would trigger a feeding response bite and I'd run the risk of losing at toe. Since then, I've never worn thongs while the monitors are out and about.
Ah, but even that precaution isn't enough. While sitting at this very computer desk last summer, I accidentally spilled some coffee on my mouse pad. I grabbed a tissue and started to wipe it up quickly. The same adult male lace monitor saw the quick movement and was on my (fortunately) jean-clad leg, ready to climb up after the 'prey' in an instant. I had to carefully push him off my leg with my other (Blundstone-clad) foot, for there was no way I could reach down with my hands in that moment.
My advice is to not think about 'tame' or 'pet' when considering a monitor, just in case it doesn't happen. If it does, it's a bonus. Also, I'd advise not to get the heath monitor. A matter of convenience now (ie available in a local pet store) will not mean anything when you still have the same animal 30 years later. Wait until you can get what you really want.