thanks guys,
i figured with four other boys it would be too hard for one to occupy her side, thus there probably isnt a bond. they have been kept in a group like this for years.
im choosing the female, and number 5. i did as that they be put on the floor to try see which boy sticks by her more.. but as most of you have said, im sure whatever male is chosen, he will try and try untill she gives in..
i always wondered why in the wild, if the male was killed.. would she not breed or give in to another male?