i dont like that people can read the messages,so dont really use them,my suggestion is stick to using pms,especially if u are going to say personal things,this site is beginning to get so nitty picky ,its ridulous,remember why u come to this forum,for those who have forgotten its because you have a passion for reptiles,you want to learn,seek advice ect,the amout of crap being spoken is getting beyond a joke,turning the experienced keepers away,i have to trawl through the threads these days to find decent posts,and the amount of stupid comments people give the less experienced sickens me,theres a common saying that says,if u havnt got anything nice to say,DONT say anything at all
if it annoys you that inexperienced people ask questions,go to the next thread,dont be keyboard heros and put them down,remember we were all newbys once,so give people the decency they respect,and if u cant,keep your opinions to your self
end of the day we all share something thats similar,a love of reptiles and a hunger to learn more,so dont forget why we are here,support each other or if u cant bring yourself to do that,keep your comments to your self and move on
sorry had to be said