He did Bry. Thanks for your kind thoughts everyone, its appreciated. We've told the kids and they took it harder than we thought, he was their mate too, as much as mine. They havent forgotten our old dog was put down last year, their frightened another pet will die now, so were giving lots of reaasurances. They will get over it in time and I think they will warm to another, they love herps. There having a hard time accepting it, as i am, its difficult under normal circumstances, when its expected, but a nasty shock like this kind of throws you for 6. They say they dont want another coastal tho, understandable i guess.
Maybe a hatchy bredle or olive or something, well see what happens, meanwhile still planning for a beardie or two, and ofcourse they love the froggys and turtles and their own pets.
I think its a sad part of nature but the value of pets is important for kids, teaches them all about life and sadly, death too, but most importantly ,teaches them to love and respect life of any kind. we'll keep on keeping on.
Thanks again for your support everyone.