Wow... You were stalked for 7 years... That's some (sorry but) obsessive sh*t! Going by that, I assume you's were a couple for quite some time?? I got fakebook years ago as my high school reunion was looming... I finally got into contact with all 68 of my fellow year 12 grads only to find that they were all so vastly disbanded that something like only 12 RSVP'd for the proposed reunion, so it never even happened so after that, I deleted it and that was going on a decade ago. I don't feel like an Alien at all, I feel completely normal. It offers nothing that I can't live without.
This is actually what makes it even creepier...we weren't!
Less than 2 months! And I'm truly not that exciting!
Unfortunately, it's quite un-PC to say, but there seemed to be 'glorious' plans of convincing me to relocate to another country...which my response was basically LOL NO. And it all got crazier from there.
Infact, 2 years after that, with another boyfriend, one of the times he found me on Facey, he sent me a message saying he knows we've been with other people...but he still loves me, and I love him. Speak for yourself buddy! Never told my ex (or anyone). Should have, he'd have killed him.
Infact, this is really the first time I've admitted it's ever happened!
About a year or so ago my sister said "I got a message from such and such in my others folder from a few months ago. He says he's an old friend and wanted your contact details? Sorry I'm late...should I respond?"
I just discreetly said "no thank you."
I still struggle to answer phone calls because of it, though I think I've finally dodged it all.
It's quite funny how someone else being unhinged can make you feel shame and like it's your fault, hence you keep it to yourself.
Terrifying.
Anyway, crazy babble. Just rather therapeutic to admit to the horror...
And that kids...is why....internet privacy shouldn't be taken for granted..and stuff.