Ron, you're getting far too tied up in semantics. You are trying to connect what is purely keeper/breeder personal opinion/terminology with scientific fact, and they will never come together in the way you want them to. I have a very firm idea of what I call a Diamond, an Intergrade, a cross and a Coastal. Others opinions obviously differ (although I'm right
!) I can only call them as to how they look, because these days it's impossible to get a true idea of the background of any of these captive-bred Carpet-like snakes. I think an experienced eye can usually (I say that with reservation) tell something about the heritage of these animals, but not always.
The DNA science will tell you now that M.s. spilota & M.s. mcdowelli are very much the same species, so in terms of names, scientifically, the common names we use as keepers are irrelevant - all they do is give us interested amateurs an idea of the appearance and POSSIBLY the rough area from which they came. That's absolutely the most you can expect from common names. But in your case, if your snake's maternal genes came from Kempsey (regardless of what your breeder says, it's intergrade country) and the father was from up near the Qld border(definitely Coastal country), you have neither an Intergrade nor a Coastal - you have a geographical mix which may look like one or the other.
Captive breeding, both careless by ill-informed keepers, and deliberate by the experimenters, has totally corrupted the captive gene pool from which we draw most of our Carpet snakes. I would say that as time goes on we will be seeing a greater proportion of the offerings breeders have, that look like intergrades because the distinctive locality patterns will be mixed with so many other influences. The Intergrade appearance will become the default Carpet Python. Sad, I think, but the cat's already out of the bag on that one.
You are looking for a definitive answer to a question for which such an answer doesn't exist.
Btw, genus ALWAYS capital, species and subspecies ALWAYS lower case i.e., Morelia spilota spilota, Morelia spilota mcdowelli (although scientifically these names are pretty much defunct now because science no longer differentiates between these as subspecies...)
Jamie