just dont take no for an answer, and act confident.....Elvira had my two sons and my husband completely bluffed one night they just couldnt get her out of her click clack...and she was only a few moonths old...I came home and just reached in and picked her up. Just move with confidence and just do it regardless.....they soon learn you are not going to hurt them and coming out is fun and he will love it
I try to combine some handling time and some exploring time where they get to climb over the dining room chairs etc....they love it.....just never leave your snake unattended when letting them have a climb......just in case.......