Well it's quite obvious to everyone that I love these 'pests' and am keeping one as a pet. She doesn't need to say she feeds them to her lizards infromt of me. I might not like a pet somebody else owns but that doesn't mean I go around saying "Aww yeah, everytime I see one of those in my garden I like to throw it across the road" or some crap. It's something I'd keep to myself because I know it'd hurt the receiver's feelings.