rant about the opposite gender

[mysnakesau]

Seems like youre more mature than the teenage girls out there. so why dont you just ignore the teenage boys and go for older guys or something. not like a 10 year gap maybe 2 or 3 that's into your personality and not for your looks. =)

What's the hurry. If you're not ready for a boyfriend then you don't have to look for one for the sake of it. When the time is right, you will meet the right guy for you. Could be tomorrow, next year, 5 years time. I was 25 before I finally met my soul mate, and prior to that I was stuck in an abusive relationship and it was more so was my own fault for being young, gullable and thinking I had to have a boyfriend there and then. Take your time. Don't look for Mr Right. He will find you.

 

[Snakelove]

What's the hurry. If you're not ready for a boyfriend then you don't have to look for one for the sake of it. When the time is right, you will meet the right guy for you. Could be tomorrow, next year, 5 years time. I was 25 before I finally met my soul mate, and prior to that I was stuck in an abusive relationship and it was more so was my own fault for being young, gullable and thinking I had to have a boyfriend there and then. Take your time. Don't look for Mr Right. He will find you.

yeah but she wouldnt be able to learn without making minor mistakes at first. and not a major one at that. you cant really learn by just observing or listening to her girlfriends saying "oh my bf did this and that" she'd have to experience it herself. i was just giving a suggestion that she should find someone older even when she's 20+ or whatever age. seems like if you get a guy thats younger than you they tend to think "SCORE! WOOO! look at my gf yo! check her ouuuuut!" and again not all but some.

 

[waruikazi]

yeah but she wouldnt be able to learn without making minor mistakes at first. and not a major one at that. you cant really learn by just observing or listening to her girlfriends saying "oh my bf did this and that" she'd have to experience it herself. i was just giving a suggestion that she should find someone older even when she's 20+ or whatever age. seems like if you get a guy thats younger than you they tend to think "SCORE! WOOO! look at my gf yo! check her ouuuuut!" and again not all but some.

How about don't rule anyone in or out and just go and have some fun. Don't get into relationships to have a boy friend or girl friend just get into them to have some fun. People really underestimate how good a hook up relationship is. 'Seeing' people is awesome, all of the fun but none of the responsibility for both parties!

 

[miss2]

so waruikazi, your one of those that want the benifits of a relationship with no commitment??
**take back your hug**

 

[Jackrabbit]

and yet...we barely hear about the guys complaining about females and their mind games, well no where near as much as we females tend to complain about men? the fact we all "get off" on mind screwing the opposite sex? Not saying that every female does, but the majority seem to...You sometimes need to see the flip side to these things...men are wired visually, we're wired mentally...sooner we realize this and learn to work with it, the better.

Women are too complicated for us humble males to understand. we are just happy that some reasnably good looking want to be associated with us. Also the grass is always greener etc.... that is why we are such a visual species. Always looking for the next best thing.

Perhaps that is why I am still single!! :cry:

 

[Snakelove]

How about don't rule anyone in or out and just go and have some fun. Don't get into relationships to have a boy friend or girl friend just get into them to have some fun. People really underestimate how good a hook up relationship is. 'Seeing' people is awesome, all of the fun but none of the responsibility for both parties!

haha that's the thing. not all girls are into that and if you tell them that hooking up was your intention theyd bolt. =P

 

[waruikazi]

so waruikazi, your one of those that want the benifits of a relationship with no commitment??
**take back your hug**

**Takes back hug** **Puts it on** **Feels a bit cold and kind of stretched, What did you do to my hug??**

Lol no, you misunderstand. I think alot of people take things too seriously, especially relationships and i think that can spoil alot of the fun. I'm not talking having 2 or 3 partners on the go at once, which alot of people think is the reason for 'seeing' people. Just relax, see what happens and enjoy what comes along. Don't worry about where your relationship is going, just worry about enjoying it.

 

[miss2]

**Takes back hug** **Puts it on** **Feels a bit cold and kind of stretched, What did you do to my hug??**

feels kinnda stretched.... R U CALLING ME FAT??? lol lol lol

 

[waruikazi]

haha that's the thing. not all girls are into that and if you tell them that hooking up was your intention theyd bolt. =P

And if that happens then that is fine also. Lol but on the *****ide i've been in some relationships where the other half has indicated to me that they want to get all serious and i have run a mile lol. You shouldn't need to dramatically change your outlook on life to be with someone. If you want two different things then it probably wasn't going to work out anyway.

The key word i think everyone needs to remember is RELAX, there is nothing worse than being in a relationship of any kind with someone who is really uptight all the time.

 

[waruikazi]

r u calling me fat??? Lol lol lol

lolololololoolololol!

 

[Snakelove]

And if that happens then that is fine also. Lol but on the *****ide i've been in some relationships where the other half has indicated to me that they want to get all serious and i have run a mile lol. You shouldn't need to dramatically change your outlook on life to be with someone. If you want two different things then it probably wasn't going to work out anyway.

The key word i think everyone needs to remember is RELAX, there is nothing worse than being in a relationship of any kind with someone who is really uptight all the time.

haha very true. guy's number one fear = commitment. =P

 

[James_Scott]

When it comes down to it you accept a person for who they are. Don't try and change them. If you don't like them as they are move on.
When you do find somebody who doesn't offend you and you love being with, hold on to them!

 

[redbellybite]

THIS THREAD IS HILLARIOUS..........geez you teens are suppose to feel insecure and awkward...thats part of growing up ...as you get older things in life matter differently...you start to see whats on the inside ,instead of what everyone else see's on the outside ..
Love is different from lust ..these two words get very mixed up when your young ..love is a working word and doesnt wear off as quickly as lust ..
people that love each other and have been in a long term relationship either engaged or married/de facto
can still find that little bit of lustyness even if the package is a bit broken and worn out ,we still remember what it use to look like years ago and can hold onto that as far as visualness goes...
I hope you all find someone in life that makes you happy and content ,even at times it might seem rocky and one sided ,if your meant to be together you will pull through it and come out the other side ...

 

[Asharee133]

THIS THREAD IS HILLARIOUS..........geez you teens are suppose to feel insecure and awkward...thats part of growing up ...as you get older things in life matter differently...you start to see whats on the inside ,instead of what everyone else see's on the outside ..
Love is different from lust ..these two words get very mixed up when your young ..love is a working word and doesnt wear off as quickly as lust ..
people that love each other and have been in a long term relationship either engaged or married/de facto
can still find that little bit of lustyness even if the package is a bit broken and worn out ,we still remember what it use to look like years ago and can hold onto that as far as visualness goes...
I hope you all find someone in life that makes you happy and content ,even at times it might seem rocky and one sided ,if your meant to be together you will pull through it and come out the other side ...

teenagers aren't all awkward or insecure, i dont care what people think about me. and i know a heap of people now i must be off to do the teenagerly thing and clean my room.

 

[fritzi2009]

teenagers aren't all awkward or insecure, i dont care what people think about me. and i know a heap of people now i must be off to do the teenagerly thing and clean my room.

you forgot to mention that you have to go listen to your ipod while texting your latest boycrush and bumpuffing cigarettes on webcam to look cool :lol: thats what us teenagers do isnt it?

 

[Opalsdad]

Gee, some of you girls are nasty I have always been a toyboy. I go for nature not all looks! lol

 

[miss2]

you forgot to mention that you have to go listen to your ipod while texting your latest boycrush and bumpuffing cigarettes on webcam to look cool :lol: thats what us teenagers do isnt it?

lol love it

 

[fritzi2009]

lol love it

haha...

 

[da_donkey]

who only care about
a) themselves
b) blonde hair big boobed girls who have no respect for themselves (not saying that if you have blonde hair and big boobs that you aren't a good person, but you all know the type im talking about....)
c) only caring about looks not personality

:|

UUMMM you live on the goldy, thats all the things the goldy is about

donks

 

[DanTheMan]

I agree, most teenage guys (and some girls for that matter, but more so guys, girls mature quicker) are idiots and I cant stand them, I prefer company of older more mature people, but obviously not keen on going out with a chick that's older than me, for some reason, I don't know, would be weird. I guess if they didn't look older itd be alright.
You walk past groups of teens in the street and here them talking about how cool they are and it makes you want to hit them haha, and they always eye me up and try and look tough with their stupid falt peaks on, I cant help but laugh at them.
And I personaly dont know how guys put up with ditsy chicks for their looks, spend enough time around them and their personality drives me insane.