Reporting someone for bullying by private message

[Khagan]

Wow.. Is there really a need for you all to jump on someone just for wanting to have someone harassing them dealt with in the correct manner?

Yes, pming someone and abusing them is harassment. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be harassed, there are site rules and mods to enforce them for a reason.

 

[Snowman]

Please stop PM'ing me Akarsha. I know you are just joking, but I dont like it at all.

 

[Khagan]

Please stop PM'ing me Akarsha. I know you are just joking, but I dont like it at all.

They are not even online lol.

 

[Renenet]

Yes, pming someone and abusing them is harassment. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be harassed, there are site rules and mods to enforce them for a reason.

Agreed.

 

[Snowman]

The pm popped up when I logged in...

 

[zack13]

Wow.. Is there really a need for you all to jump on someone just for wanting to have someone harassing them dealt with in the correct manner?

Yes, pming someone and abusing them is harassment. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be harassed, there are site rules and mods to enforce them for a reason.

While I agree there is no need for harassment there was definitely no need to make a thread about it. It was said in private and should be dealt with in private. If you can't figure out how to report you can PM a mod. This seems like someone wanted attention about something they had happen to them.

What I am getting at is if you post something silly and not needed expect silly and unneeded comments.

 

[Stompsy]

I asked how to report it. Everyone else has taken the thread elsewhere. I use tapatalk which doesn't show who is a mod. And anyway, if you don't believe I should have made a thread and believe I'm getting too much attention then don't come in here, read it or comment! Good god.

I really forgot how infuriating forums can be!! Grrr!

 

[Slateman]

Firs thing.....There is no such a thing as bullying by PM on APS. One bad message from another member, and you can cut him off. You can select from who to receive PM. You are in control.

If bullying continue in forums, just report this post to mods and we will deal with this as quick as possible.


There is no need to brag about insulting PM in forum
All members have option to disable PM from members if they are offended to receive them.
I personally allow only people who are on my friend list to sent me PM.
So please if you are offended, apply this feature which this site offer.
Moderators don't moderate personal posting between members and for strict security this site have, we can't see and read them to find out what people posting.
Sensitive people should not leave they pm box open to public.

There is no point to report pm abuse to mods forum, there is no way mods get involved in most of the cases. DISABLE THE OPTION IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT.

Some times I feel like kindergarten teacher here. Please Grow up people, we have hard enough time to control forums.
Please look at your self and don't post or report pointless rubbish

 

[Stompsy]

Why is there a report option on the pm's if it doesn't have any effect? And how was I bragging? And why do the rules state no abuse via pm? Bit of a crock IMO.

 

[Slateman]

Why is there a report option on the pm's if it doesn't have any effect? And how was I bragging? And why do the rules state no abuse via pm? Bit of a crock IMO.

This option is for extreme cases only. Not when somebody post you message that you are stupid or annoying person.
And rule no abuse by PM is logical. Decent people should automatically behave properly and post in civilised friendly fashion.
To moderate PM messages, we would have to breach privacy of members. That is done only in extreme cases, when police or court case is involved. I don't think that this is your situation.
So please before you start posting to mods about your problem, try to solve it logically your self. Just do not allow somebody you have problem with to pm you.


Before you start drama topic in forum, you should try all option this forum offer to avoid contact with person you don't like to communicate.

All we ask is to be reasonable. This is large forum community and we can't control every silly dispute.

As I said before. Grow up.

 

[Stompsy]

This was a thread asking how I report them. That's all. If nothing happened to that person because of my report then so be it but at least the mods know he is being a jerk via pm and it may not have been only to me.

Lol. You ask one question and get bagged out for doing so. Forum people are ridiculous.

 

[Shotta]

This option is for extreme cases only. Not when somebody post you message that you are stupid or annoying person.
And rule no abuse by PM is logical. Decent people should automatically behave properly and post in civilised friendly fashion.
To moderate PM messages, we would have to breach privacy of members. That is done only in extreme cases, when police or court case is involved. I don't think that this is your situation.
So please before you start posting to mods about your problem, try to solve it logically your self. Just do not allow somebody you have problem with to pm you.


Before you start drama topic in forum, you should try all option this forum offer to avoid contact with person you don't like to communicate.

All we ask is to be reasonable. This is large forum community and we can't control every silly dispute.

As I said before. Grow up..

lol i can type english well too please dont miss letters or words lol
sound funny as when i read it hah ha

 

[Slateman]

Please don't post stupid comments here people. I will have non of it.
This issue is serious.
If anybody is having problems with unpleasant pm from others, just fallow my advice.
people who bothering others in PM are usually cut off by all the members and have nobody to post to.

In extreme cases we have to deal with them, but this was not the case.

 

[Shotta]

lol

 

[Slateman]

lol i can type english well too please dont miss letters or words lol
sound funny as when i read it hah ha

English is my second language
I am sorry that you can't understand me.
I created this site for people to have fun and I put lot of effort to keep it running. I don't need this type of comments about my posts.
I mean well and trying my best.

 

[mad_at_arms]

That was clever wasn't it sanosuke?
Enjoy your week off.

 

[thomasssss]

lol i can type english well too please dont miss letters or words lol
sound funny as when i read it hah ha

i was thinking the same thing i don't think he has the best english? is english your first language slateman? you just leave out alot of the smaller words that help your sentences make sense

dont suspend me i was trying to be nice i didn't think english was your first language

 

[Slateman]

i was thinking the same thing i don't think he has the best english? is english your first language slateman? you just leave out alot of the smaller words that help your sentences make sense

Thomas I speek 5 languages and my mother language is Czech language. I learn Englisch as my 4th option and trying my best. I have mainly problem when I am trying to type quickly.
But this should be friendly forum and people should not be nasty. Not called for.
All I tried to do is to help you with the problem here.

 

[thomasssss]

Thomas I speek 5 languages and my mother language is Czech language. I learn Englisch as my 4th option and trying my best. I have mainly problem when I am trying to type quickly.
But this should be friendly forum and people should not be nasty. Not called for.
All I tried to do is to help you with the problem here.

wow wish i could speak 5 languages im stuck speaking stupid english ,your doing pretty bloody well i think to only leave out a few words if its not your first language

 

[dragonboy69]

Thomas I speek 5 languages and my mother language is Czech language. I learn Englisch as my 4th option and trying my best. I have mainly problem when I am trying to type quickly.
But this should be friendly forum and people should not be nasty. Not called for.
All I tried to do is to help you with the problem here.

at least he has made an attempt to learn to speak,read write English. How many of you people can speak 2 languages let alone try and to speak 5.