I think we are already lightened up. Basically if people don't like the site and don't want to be constructive then don't log in. The way I see it I have this filter thingy (personal choice I think it's called), it works like this.
1. When someone posts a question or a comment I read it (every forum).
2. If I find it interesting, funny or I have something that may aid the person I type stuff in.
3. I then monitor the responses ('cos often I get to learn something).
4. When the posts start going off subject I decide if I want to stay with it or not.
5. If I don't like what I read then I ignore the posts.
6. Sometimes I get a bit fired up (sometimes enthusiastic).
I joined this site after looking at all the others I could find. ALL others were sterile - often informative but sterile - no personality. The one thing that has kept me here is the community - The US connection, The Italian lad, Mr Germany plus others that pop in and out. There are a bunch of regulars and they do spout more stuff (they are the regular contributors). Not everything is to do with reptiles. When you think about it, for there to be a conversation about reptiles and their care, you need people to ask questions. Newbies are often the source of these questions. There is a limit to the number of questions (before they start to repeat) and the answers offered up. Once you run out of subject matter then you go on to chit chat. If we only have serious stuff the community will disappear. If all you want is sterile information I can reccommend some good books and some web sites that will suit you.
Basically if this site doesn't suit you don't bother logging in - it is not compulsory - it is a forum for people to do what they want and that I admit includes complaining about the site. You may or may not find your comments welcome that's the choice of the individual.
If people want more reptile detail then post more detailed questions or comments.
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